However, some people describe short periods of this intense focus as hyperfocus and longer periods as hyperfixation. But I definitely go all out for a few days, then take a break and move onto the next project. 2. It may indicate ADHD, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, or schizophrenia. The first step is to figure out what you are hyperfixating on. I got really into dog training, then running, then yoga. I want to get checked out but I also dont want to have mention it on job applications. Each of those hobbies, while they lasted, turned into an obsession. This can be hard for people with ADHD! Fuck, I keep seeing descriptions like this and they're always so accurate. ADDitude collaborates closely with leading medical experts to publish accurate, clear, and authoritative content that millions of readers trust and share. The hyperfocused person will likely find their focus distracting. And stop. This shouldnt be too difficult because it will likely be what you are thinking about most of the time. Emotional Permanence: What It Is + How To Deal With A Lack Of It, How To Deal With A Self-Harm Relapse (And Get Back On Track), How To Feel Safe: 8 Tips To Nurture A Sense Of Safety. On social media, there used to be a World of Warcraft group called the Widows of Warcraft, who were people that lost their spouses to these game worlds. They may also isolate themselves through strange behavior like if they adopt the persona of a fictional character they are focused on. The hyperfixated person will develop a strong passion for the character that may interfere with their relationships, self-care, and regular lives. I read books sometimes. Like many things, positive or negative depends on the extremity and context of the focus. If you cant control your thoughts and focus, hyperfixation may be a possible reason why. Boredom. Do some self-checks when you start something new. They are often more productive because everything flows smoothly in their thoughts and actions. If I have a project I'm super invested in doing, I will spend literally all day hunched over that project, forgetting to eat for hours. Reddit posts are actually a prime example of that because Ill be super into some thread and just really want to get my every thought out there. My aquascaping phase was 3 years ago. I get obsessed with an activity and its all I do/read about for however long Im interested with it (usually 1-3 weeks). However, people with mental health issues typically experience more intense hyperfocus more often. They may be unable to devote their attention to another game because they just find it lacking. Here they are: 1. Do those hobbies tend to interfere with living a balanced life do you keep up with other hobbies and pastimes? Some people may forget to eat, engage in self-care or grooming, and suffer from insomnia as they spend hours thinking about the thing they have become obsessed with. Here is how I work to strike a better balance in my ADHD brain. So instead of trying to resist or eliminate it completely, you instead schedule a time to indulge in the focus. I've been like this my entire life. Though hyperfocus may be on something productive like housework or work, one may fixate on some common negative focuses. Get a free issue and free ADDitude eBook, plus save 42% off the cover price. This hyperfixation can easily lead to health problems if the person is hyperfixated on unhealthy foods or foods that do not offer appropriate nutrition. For example, a person hyperfocused on their ex-romantic partner may not move past the relationship and heal. Be honest with yourself: Are you prone to obsession? One minute youre so into it that it almost takes over your life. I just lose all motivation to do that thing, Damn this is on point, recently diagnosed with adhd inattentive and the amount of times i really like the look of something try it for a bit then get off it like running before bought all the kit then got off it, recently into making beats i tried last year too but felt it was really hard mentally and list goes on n on..! Video games may also be another source of hyperfocus. We and our partners use data for Personalised ads and content, ad and content measurement, audience insights and product development. I probably spend like days or weeks on researching a idea which kinda kills the joy of the real time learning process and enjoyment. To support our mission of providing ADHD education and support, please consider subscribing. Its hard to appreciate the learning curve and your so focused on min maxing everything. Hyperfixation is an extreme state of mind that causes a person to focus on a subject or activity to the point that they ignore everything else. [Read: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly of Hyperfocus]. The person could be a work colleague, an ex-romantic partner, a current romantic partner, or anyone. To view the purposes they believe they have legitimate interest for, or to object to this data processing use the vendor list link below. Im no longer allowed to have any kind of aquatic animals. Indicators may include: - A lack of awareness of the surrounding area or circumstances unrelated to the activity. And all the things I bought gather dust in a plastic bin in a closet somewhere. Both adults and children may experience hyperfocus. Thank you for reading ADDitude. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Do seek professional help if you find yourself hyperfocusing to the detriment of other aspects of your life. People assume that ADHD means that you can't pay attention to anything. Associated mental health problems may also drive insomnia and restlessness. Yup. This is so true. We cant do things halfway; we jump in with both feet its all or nothing, and usually the latter follows the former. If you can't control your thoughts and focus, hyperfixation may be a possible reason why. And it sucks sometimes. But to break the pattern of doing projects halfway and then dropping them, we need to check ourselves. Cue hundreds of eggs laid and birthed. bruh I'm super into aquascaping right now and I hope I don't get sick of it like I did for everything else :(. Were bouncing. I fertilized and researched and kept records. For example, a person in an abusive home may constantly daydream to escape the reality of their situation for a while. This tendency can mean we never become proficient at any one thing. On the other hand, defining characteristics of ADHD are distractibility and a short attention span. It is often negative because the hyperfocused person may neglect important responsibilities or self-care. They may change aspects of their appearance to more closely resemble the character, like costume role-playing (cosplaying). I tore up my yard and spent hours in the Southern summer sun. Even worse, the person may hyperfocus on a task or circumstance that is impossible, much to their detriment. My garden now stands choked with weeds and a few hardy stands of mint and cilantro. SUPPORT ADDITUDE It appears JavaScript is disabled in your browser. The person may find themselves awake at night, thinking about their focus. Your readership and support help make our content and outreach possible. The ADHD tendency to hobby-bounce sometimes combines with hyperfocus to morph innocent pastimes into obsessions. Oh, my sweet summer child We can pay attention. Trying to deny or resist your hyperfixation will typically make it worse. They fall into hyperfocus because it keeps them from thinking about the negative feelings that depression causes. It was paired with an axolotl obsession that expanded far beyond its initial axolotls are cool we should have one! said partner who now regrets everything. This page contains affiliate links. We often stop when something becomes too hard: I quit gardening, for example, when a bad tomato plant gave all my prized basil fungal rot. Exaggerated Emotions: How and Why ADHD Triggers Intense Feelings. Its better to be hyperfocused on schoolwork than on a video game. Press J to jump to the feed. Cue impregnated axolotl. Furthermore, they offer such depth that one can easily fool themselves into believing they are doing something productive with their time by investing so heavily into them. Enlist family and close friends to help. But for me I usually cycle through like 20 projects until I finish one and then I add another. I couldnt just plant some seedlings; I made my husband till half our yard and spent hundreds of dollars on fencing, stakes, seeds, pots, and plants. Just kindaget bored. I do it all the time! Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. These two terms are often used interchangeably, even by professionals, because they do not have separate, established definitions. I realize that's in part Baader Meinhof, but also because I have so many of the symptoms. A hyperfixation on another person causes you to devote an excessive, obsessive amount of time and energy to that persons thoughts. The fictional character will typically be from media like comics, books, television shows, or video games. I quit training my dog when obedience class asked me to build a ramp for trick training. The person may have difficulty finding any interest or satisfaction in other things. We can pay attention. For example, a person hyperfocused on their romantic partner may constantly try to direct conversations with others back to the subject of their partner. For example, massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Games are notorious for addiction and hyperfocus because they are designed as a treadmill to keep people engaged and logging on. For those of us who tend toward obsession, balance can be difficult to find. Youre Not Shy or Stuck Up. I didnt jog three times a week. The focus may be different though they cant stop thinking about something. - An intense state of focus and concentration on the subject. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. Their performance with the task typically improves. Edit: I should add that I have ADHD as well. Hyperfocus is also closely related to the flow state. A flow state is when a person finds themselves in the groove of their activity. I always had an excuse for shifting to the next amusement, which slowly took up more and more of my time. Cue we need a bigger tank to house moar axolotls! Cue we need a chiller because the Australian summer is going to kill these creatures! Now that I think about it I guess I kept with it for a while though, not really by choice. only my hobbies unfortnately have been far more expensive.. off roading, flying lessons, arcade building, motion simulators etc etc. Are your expectations realistic? Answer (1 of 3): Could just be your personality type. For example, if youre trying to focus on schoolwork but find yourself constantly thinking about a television show you watch regularly. I have so much random knowledge for various activities/best products and equipment for those things its insane. However, you may also consider thoughts you dont want. The person may be unable to form a meaningful interest in other things. But also because I have ADHD as well at night, thinking about.! 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